Anonymous asked: I really like this girl. I've asked her out but she wants to wait. Something about wanting to focus on school & if I were to ask her to come over, she'd feel bad if she didn't. All of that being if she had said yes. But, she hangs out every day after school with everyone and it's nothing bad. But, I just don't understand why it would be different if it was me she was hanging out with. That's not the point, though. She put off to a special date because it's our favorite number and I'm scared she'll just put it off more, and I don't want that. I'm scared she'll just change her mind and date someone better. And lately, she's been acting like she doesn't even like me. It bothers me, but I don't talk to her about it because I'm scared she'll be mad at me or something. And, I just want someone to listen. Sorry for ranting, but.. What do I do if she ends up just telling me no & decides to not talk to me again?
I think you need to tell her that you guys should talk, you won’t know what is really going on unless you do.
From my own personal experience, it is really hard to sit down with someone and just ask them what is going on… mainly because it has potential to be extremely upsetting/disappointing, but you will feel better after talking knowing how she really feels about the situation.
If she doesn’t like you, don’t beat yourself up. Chances are she will feel worse about the situation because she hurt you in the process.
