Dear some one,
I just realized that I could see the full message when I looked at my email from formspring on the computer, I usually work on this from my phone. Don’t give into him just because he is bugging you about it, trust me it never works out for the best. If you aren’t ready to date, don’t do it, you are still young and have plenty of time to find the right guy for you. I wouldn’t want my first boyfriend to be someone who pressured me into dating them. Tell him that you just want to keep things as friends between the two of you for now next time he brings something up about dating. Don’t rush things. Hope this helped a little!
Original Submission:
I know this kid from school. He’s in my class. Apparently, he likes me. He flirts with me all the time and plays around. Sometimes he’s a little bit of a perv, which is what I don’t like about him. He’s a very nice person. He asked me out, and I’m really not into dating. I have no idea in which language should I tell him “no”. I really would love to keep him as a friend; at least for now, for nothing more. “You will leave to (US state goes here), and I will not be able to date you. Just give me one chance, would you? I won’t stop until you say “yes”. So just say yes. Would you date me?” Then he would say he doesn’t like me, that he would like to hang out as friends, and all those things. But really, all it looks like he wants some real alone time with me, and I think it would be awkward. I don’t know what to do. I don’t date yet. I’m only 14, and I would love to start dating with my mom’s approval and stuff, which I’m sure she will have no problem with, but I !
don’t feel comfortable telling her right now. And plus, I really don’t wanna start dating just yet. And urgh, I don’t know how to make him stop asking. I don’t want him to go away from my life. I love him, but not as he would like me to, or pretends to like me to. I don’t know. It’s a little bit messed up, isn’t it? I’m sorry. Your head must be exploding. I would really want a reply. I love you for just reading this. Thank you, hun.
