Dear heart broken,
Heartbreak is probably one of the hardest things that you will ever have to go through. To be honest, it isn’t as easy as just picking up the pieces and moving on. Things are going to be hard, without a doubt, but we just have to try and make the best of what we do have. Try to think of the positives that have come out of this relationship, you have experienced love. It isn’t fair for you to be in a relationship when you know feelings aren’t completely the same, especially because that really seems to bother you. I would suggest writing down your thoughts, and as lame as it may seems, having a good cry is good every once in a while works as good therapy. Don’t think that anything is wrong with you, sometimes people don’t know what they have until they don’t have it anymore, and sometimes people just aren’t meant to be, no matter how hard it is to admit/ get over.
I am always here if you need anyone to vent to. Thank you for your submission and I really hope things work out for you.
Original submission:
“after almost a year of being head over heels for my boyfriend i told him that i loved him. apparently he didnt feel the same way. i just feel so crushed and that something is wrong with me.we had an amazing relationship. no big fights. id say it was a very healthy relationship. i just dont understand i guess. :( i’ve never been so heart broken. so i guess what im asking is how do i even move on? i love him so much and knowing after all this time he can’t love me just kills me…we broke up btw. but i wanna fix things because i love him. but then if we get back together im just going to be sad all over again knowing he doesnt feel as strongly for me as i do for him. please help. this whole thing is so heart wrentching”
