Dear INEEDTO,
You aren’t crazy. Relationships are always tough to get over, especially if you were involved for a long time. You really love and care about him still, which is normal. Things will change, it just takes time. I think everyone has felt the way you are right now, I know I have. Sometimes feelings seem like they will never go away, maybe they won’t, but eventually we just have to put it in the past because there are many fish in the sea and you are bound to find someone equally, if not better :]
Original submission:
i have been single since September of this year, i was with someone for a very long time. since we have broken up i have not had a bond with someone like that again or even close to it, i honestly feel like i never will and that sounds crazy because i am so young. that person is still on my mind 100% of the day and i think about the old times constandly and he has already moved on and has a very serious relationship. it kills me everyday and it has seriously altered who i am and the way i see the world. i dont know what to do, i have put on a smile for a very long time but i feel that some day this will get the best of me. i will never find love again, and nobody believes it, but i feel it so deep. am i crazy? do you think that things will change?
