Dear les voleurs,
This is what I think:
You guys are extremely good friends and since you guys are so close and alike, you have a hard time wanting to be with someone different and new. You have a special bond with him that probably isn’t like any other bond you have with another guy, and that’s why you are so unsure. You ask a good question at the end of your submission, but ultimately the only person who will know if you are in love is you, and if you are questioning if you are confusing friendship for passion, I would say you love him and value him as a friend. I could be wrong, but you will know when you are in love, I can’t tell you.
Thank you for your submissions and I can help you with this or anything else anytime :]