Anonymous asked: I really like this girl. I've asked her out but she wants to wait. Something about wanting to focus on school & if I were to ask her to come over, she'd feel bad if she didn't. All of that being if she had said yes. But, she hangs out every day after school with everyone and it's nothing bad. But, I just don't understand why it would be different if it was me she was hanging out with. That's not the point, though. She put off to a special date because it's our favorite number and I'm scared she'll just put it off more, and I don't want that. I'm scared she'll just change her mind and date someone better. And lately, she's been acting like she doesn't even like me. It bothers me, but I don't talk to her about it because I'm scared she'll be mad at me or something. And, I just want someone to listen. Sorry for ranting, but.. What do I do if she ends up just telling me no & decides to not talk to me again?
I think you need to tell her that you guys should talk, you won’t know what is really going on unless you do.
From my own personal experience, it is really hard to sit down with someone and just ask them what is going on… mainly because it has potential to be extremely upsetting/disappointing, but you will feel better after talking knowing how she really feels about the situation.
If she doesn’t like you, don’t beat yourself up. Chances are she will feel worse about the situation because she hurt you in the process.
I have been thinking about this blog a lot lately, mostly because it is summer and I have an abundance of free time.
I just don’t know if it is worth trying to start back up.
Anonymous asked: So I really like one of my best friends. He's giving me so many mixed signals. He tells me everything and he stopped talking about his love life for a long time and I thought maybe it was because he liked me. I mean everyone sees us and thinks we're more than friends, but we're not. Lately he started talking about this girl he used to talk about being in love with and would never get over. I never minded before but it seems it's almost like an excuse to get me away. and He has a lot of problems lately and he would always talk to me even when he wouldn't talk to anybody else but this time he won't. We haven't gone a day without talking in over a month until this past weekend. All he ever does is like all my facebook posts all the time. He talked to me yesterday, but it just wasn't the same. I like him more than I've ever liked anyone. He's just so great and this whole thing makes me sad. Sorry I wrote a novel, needed to get that out. But you seem to be a good advice person from when I stumbled upon this when I was looking for advice pages. Any ideas on what's happening and what I should do?
Unfortunately I know exactly how you feel right now, I am currently trying to get over the same sort of thing so I don’t know if I would be much help. It just really, really sucks.
Sorry if this is really late :[
I had forgotten the password to my formspring account and randomly remembered it. I have updated the questions there.
Anonymous asked: I used to be in love with a boy, one of my best friends, and he loved me too. But he stopped talking to me about a year ago. It was for absolutely no reason and I couldn't believe that he stopped loving me. We understood each other so perfectly; I swear he was (is) my soulmate. Lately he's been giving signs, kind of like we used to together, that he still loves me and regretted it now being too late to talk to me again. I know I should talk to him and say something but it's just so hard. We're both shy and reticent but we were so perfect.
Sometimes we have to take risks. This might be one of those times. If you think those signs are his way of hinting of him wanting things back to the way they were, maybe you should give him some hints too. Sometimes it is easier to bring something up if two people are hinting towards the same thing. If you still love him, just make sure that you don’t say “I used to love you,” because that might put him off. I hope that things work out and this helps you out! Keep me posted :]
“I’m feeling love for another human being. But I couldn’t even begin to think of how I could tell them.”
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Don’t wait, you don’t want to miss your chance.
I am now working on a formspring.me account. I am once again really sorry for the lack of action! Things have been rather hectic and like I said before I lost the login information for the formspring account. What I didn’t know was that I could see the whole submission by checking my email from formspring on my computer, I usually work from my phone. If you submitted something and I did not respond to you, I am really sorry. I will be better about getting back to everyone. With the tumblr ask and formspring.me account things will be a lot easier.
Thank you<3
